Sunday,
October 6, 2013. This may not ever make
it into print, but I want to try to find words for what I have experienced
during the past few weeks, and especially what happened last Friday.
We’ve been
here for seven months now. We are just
beginning to understand the culture. It is a key to understanding everything
else. It allows us to make sense of so
many things. We are beginning to find
humor rather that frustration in the clashes between the cultures – ours and
those we are here to serve. As recently
as yesterday, I found my blood pressure on the rise because once again I lost
sight of the fact that it is my responsibility to let go of my cultural
paradigm and remember that I am the guest here. It didn’t happen all at once,
but as I fulfilled an assignment which immersed me in a sacred ordinance and
the Spirit was so present, my anger melted away. That must be the meaning of
how our troubles are “swallowed up in the joy of Christ”. With my soul quieted,
I was taught once again that this is not my world. I am a guest here.
This is your
conference week-end. Ever since we arrived Leon has requested again and again
that the tv antenna on our roof be fixed or replaced. It pointed to our roof.
You can imagine the poor reception. BYUTV airs on a local station here. That’s
a great thing for us because we don’t have cable and only get 3 channels. In desperation, Leon called one of the
engineers again and said, “Just bring
me a ladder. I’m going to fix the antenna myself. I want to watch conference
and I’m going to fix the antenna.” With visions of a senior citizen falling
from the roof and the imagined repercussions, immediate action was taken and we have
great reception. We caught a little of the Saturday morning session this
morning before church, a little of the afternoon session when we got home. I especially appreciated Elder Dube’s talk on
meekness. Mostly because that is what I lack. It was a great help to me in
recognizing what I need to do.
My lack of
meekness was actually what caused the rise in my blood pressure yesterday. The
Sunday session will be broadcast live tomorrow (Monday) from 6-8 am and 10-noon.
That is the day we do our household chores at the temple, while it is closed. Monday
is also the day the temple missionaries had a calendared activity to watch
conference. However, on Friday we were
told that instead we were going to go to Piula to swim; that we would keep to
the regular 6 a.m. cleaning schedule and then go on our activity as soon as we
were finished. I spoke to the matron
Saturday morning, asking if it would be possible to change the time of our Monday assignment so that we could watch both sessions of conference live at 6 a.m.
and 10 a.m., and then come directly to the temple to do our work at noon. She
reminded me that the sessions of conference will be rebroadcast the following
week-end in the stake center and also they will be broadcast "all the time" online
and on tv during the week. Do you see
the problem? I was standing there with one foot in West Jordan Utah, and one
foot in Samoa. It was terribly
uncomfortable. Fortunately, sometime in
the next few hours, I was able to pull my foot out of Utah, and plant both feet
firmly right here again, where everyone realizes that for Samoa, general
conference is one week later than in the states.
Monday it
rained so hard we hoped maybe there would be a change of plans. Not so. As it turned
out, we enjoyed ourselves on the activity, though to start with, inside we
went screaming and kicking. Following President Hinckley’s *advice, we put a
smile on our faces and joined the group. There were 2 vans of us. Fitisemanu's drove one van. We rode with
Paugas and I had a great visit with Sister Pauga and got help with the language
as well. It was a fun day.
One week
later.
Saturday,
October 12, 2013. General Conference was
well worth waiting for. We were able to attend the English sessions in the
chapel directly across the street from the temple. Most of the Samoan temple missionaries also
attended there as the building is the ONLY air conditioned chapel on the
island. It is the one that hosts the visiting general authority meetings. In
the morning session, the projected images seemed over-exposed. People looked a
little washed out. It was especially noticeable when the choir was on the
screen. I wondered for a minute if we just hadn’t seen so many white people
together for a long time. Actually, I think that was part of it. But it was a color adjustment problem that was
corrected in the afternoon session. I
strongly suggest that if you don’t want your daughters to marry Polynesians,
you don’t send them to BYU-Hawaii. The bronze skin color is beautiful. We look
at ourselves and think, (as Elder Gertsch expressed), “Am I getting pinker?”
There was
definitely a missionary theme going on today. But I also felt that we needed to
ponder the talks in reference to how they are to prepare and protect us against
the events of the future. Perhaps answering the call to become involved with
the full-time missionaries and doing our part to bring people to Christ is the
very thing that will protect us and enable us to endure the challenges
ahead. Is there anything that could
increase our faith and deepen our conversion more than missionary work?
It is
getting late. I was hoping to say so much more, but evidently I’m still recuperating
from my Friday temple assignment, and need to go to bed. I so appreciate your prayers in my behalf. It
takes all I have and then some (the Lord’s grace and tender mercies) to fill
this coordinating assignment. I know I am being sustained through prayer.
Love to you
all and thanks for your prayers,
Mom/Grandma/Friend
* “Don’t be
gloomy. Do not dwell on unkind things.
Stop seeking out the storms and enjoy more fully the sunshine. Even if you’re not happy put a smile on your
face. ‘Accentuate the positive.’ Look a little deeper for the good. Go forward
in life with a twinkle in your eye and a smile on your face, with great and
strong purpose in your heart.” ~
President Gordon B. Hinckley
These are some pictures I took that day at Piula Cave Pool.
I'm standing on the sea wall, looking toward the cave at the end of the pool.
L-R: Elder Crowley (doesn't he look pink?) He's reminding me where to find the zoom on our camera.
Sister Tafua in white Tee (new from Huntington Beach, CA), Sister Nele Moaga, behind her is Sister Collins, Sister Fitisemanu in center, Sister Tavete behind her, the Sauni's are behind Tavete, and in front is young Sister Afualo. Sissters Collins and Afualo have been serving in the temple and have now left for their missions to ID Pocatello and Australia Sydney respectively.
Elder Bob and Sister Peggy Lamoreaux, from Orem, UT, parents of 14 children. This is their 3rd mission, the first was to Romania, second to Mongolia. Samoa is their reward.
Lamoreaux's with their backs to the sea. Remember the cave pool is a fresh water pool, separated from the ocean by the sea wall.
President and Sister Pauga. She's the one tutoring me on my Friday assignment.
President Fitisemanu
These two girls prepared the food while we were in the temple. As you might expect, there was more food than we could possibly eat.
The Samoans learn to sit in this position from the time they are babies. They can sit this way for hours. Not us.
Manuia aso confesi.
(Blessed conference day)
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