We have been inundated with bananas. Have the banana trees
only just recovered from the December cyclone? Why all the bananas? I don't have the answer. People
are giving us bananas of different varieties everywhere we turn. We go to the
temple and in the break room the table is full of bananas –not only bananas,
but banana soup! There is one variety that is about the length of the bananas
you are used to (here they are called palagi bananas), but at least twice as
fat. They are very tasty—especially with ice cream and chocolate sauce. The
little misilukis are anywhere from tiny to small, and very good, very good. I
think bananas are fattening, attract mosquitoes, and
may cause constipation (that’s just a guess because when a baby has diarrhea,
bananas are part of the recommended diet). But bananas are what we have in
abundance, and we eat them. On cereal, under a scoop of ice cream, alone, baked
in coconut milk, or boiled in soup (for my part the latter is only eaten because
of peer pressure), we eat them.
Misiluki Banana
Today is Sunday. Leon taught the lesson in his priesthood
quorum. The subject was Loving God More Than We Love the World. He used the
picture of the monkey, his hand grasping a banana inside a jug, caught between
his hunger and his need to be free. He
shared the story of Jacob and Esau from the Old Testament. You remember the
account of Esau coming in from hunting, tired and hungry, and trading his
birthright away to Jacob for a ‘mess of pottage’, which we commonly think of as
hot cereal. Anyway, the response from the class to that story was totally
unexpected, but on further reflection, totally fa’asamoan. A brother spoke out indignantly: “That would
never happen in Samoa.” Another chimed in, “He should have fed his brother.”
They were totally in Esau’s corner. And
they were absolutely correct: it would never happen in Samoa. Brother Macdonald
said right out loud, “I hate that story!”
I also taught the lesson in Relief Society, however we are
one lesson ahead of the priesthood, so my subject was Doing Good to Others. In
response to my question as to whether anyone had ever pulled themselves out of
a gloomy mood by serving someone else whose need was greater, one sister told
the following experience. Cathy Arp is actually one of the two sisters I visit
teach. She is a diabetic whose health is declining. On a particularly hard day,
night actually, she was very tired when the phone rang. On the other end of the
line was someone whose cupboards were bare.
Was her husband home? No, he was not. There was an apologetic request
for the need of food and the lateness of the hour. Cathy responded by answering
the need. No sooner was she home again a second request, a critical need for
food, came from another family, again asking for Seig (Cathy’s husband). Before
the night was over, she had delivered food to four families. In each case they
were very apologetic, saying they had asked so many times before, and hesitated
to ask again. But as each had prayed for guidance, Seig came to mind. So even
at the late hour, need overcame humiliation and they called the man who had
never turned them away. Cathy said that while her strength and patience were worn
thin by the end of the fourth visit, she realized what a blessing it was to be
married to such a man to whom the Lord would direct his children in time of
need. I didn’t ask Cathy, but beside whatever else she provided, I’ll bet she
took them some bananas.
In another sense, we are going bananas over a care package
we received from home this past week.
Leon and I looked at each other and wondered and hoped that we had sent
care packages to our missionaries when they were out. That was so long ago! We’ve
since been assured that we did. I had no idea how fun it could be to receive
any mail from home, but especially to have received a box full of ingredients
for holiday cooking! Rather than packed in packing peanuts, it was packed in
mini candy bars, which we sorted out like a couple of kids, setting aside our
personal favorites and sharing others. A
few weeks ago we received another care package from the Fifes, who had personal
knowledge of how valuable some of the contents of their box would be: namely
the tp which they labeled, “For special occasions”.
As we approach Thanksgiving Day, we have to list near the
top the modern technology that allows us to call home anytime with such clear
sound that it’s hard to believe how many miles separate us. We check our email
inbox daily and are grateful for the timely communication between friends and
family, and especially hearing from our two grandchildren currently serving
missions. Skype is a modern miracle we
plan to employ on Thanksgiving Day when nearly all of our family will be
gathered together. As for us, we will
celebrate Thanksgiving with all of the senior missionaries on Saturday,
November 30th, because that is the day everyone, including us temple
missionaries, is free in the evening. That will be your Black Friday as we are
a day ahead.
Happy Thanksgiving,
Everyone!
Hey, I got a comment to post! Loved reading this post. In fact, I just made banana pudding for our Sunday dessert, so we'll be thinking of you while we feast. Always great to hear your updates and hope that you have a wonderful week!
ReplyDeleteHey, it worked! So happy that you can comment. Because I love to read your comments. ; ) I'll bet your pudding was delicious! I hope you are on target for your book. I think about you every day.
DeleteLove you!! And Love those tiny bananas! They are really good!
ReplyDeleteIt's so fun that you know exactly what I'm talking about. Love you so much!
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